Sunday, September 6, 2015

It's September!

It seems I've been away from the blogging world for quite some time now. As they say, life took over and I could not find time to talk about it here.

The last post I wrote was about a dear friend's baby shower. As much fun we had on that particular day, it was in no way compensatory for the trauma that followed. 'A' had a doctor's appointment on the very next day and was asked to go the emergency room. It was her 30th week (most pregnancies last 40-42 weeks), and we were not expecting this.

Since no private hospital here in Bahrain takes a case before 34, she had to be taken to a government hospital. Even though the facilities there are the best in the country, not knowing any doctor in such a critical situation was nightmarish. After keeping her under observation for 2 days, they decided to do a c-section. The babies were born and taken directly to the incubator where they would live for a few weeks till they are ready to face the real world. The mother, initially shocked, worried, emotionally a wreck, is now doing ok and is all set to take care of the babies. Oh, she had twin angels, by the way!

Between the home and the hospital, our lives as close friends got very busy as well. When you live outside your own country, you are hugely dependent on friends for support. While one was constantly in touch with the friend's mother back home so that she can make the perfect food for the new mom, I tried to be the emotional support at the hospital. This government hospital in an Islamic country doesn't allow men to stay over-night in a private ward. For the first time in my life, I stayed in the hospital for over three nights and fared decent!

Now all we want is for the babies to become stronger and come home. In a few months, they would become so adorable and cuddly!

The other thing that is now keeping me busy is another holiday. Oh yes, every one we tell this to goes green with jealousy and cannot understand how we manage to do it all. Well, some people have kids, some people have work, and some people dream to travel the world. Obviously, we are doing the third one and refuse to be judged on that.

We leave this Thursday for a fortnight. This time we would be touring Amsterdam, Brugges, the Black Forest in Germany and Munich for Oktoberfest. This holiday was planned in December last year and a lot of it is from the bucket list. Also, we got a three-year Schenghen visa this year, so be prepared to see a lot of Europe on my site. Frankly, I don't think the whole world compares to this beautiful continent. So even if we go there over and over again, I wouldn't mind it at all!

I've not even completed my last holiday's trip report. Hopefully the memories of the new one wouldn't blur the last. Hopefully that wouldn't be the case ever. Isn't that the reason we travel - to make new memories that last a lifetime?

Prost! (That's 'cheers' in German - the only word I remember so far because it is going to be used a lot during the beer festival!!!)

12 comments:

  1. You Inspire Me :) And Trust me You are Living it Right..

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  2. You are setting the right kind of example to people like me. I would want to do exactly what you are doing! :D

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    1. Haha! That puts a lot of responsibility on my shoulders. I hope to never let you down! :)

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  3. Damn, that must have been scary! Glad that mommy and babies are doing good :)

    Write it down, woman, write it down before you forget! I'm living vicariously through you so I want every last detail! :P

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    1. Oh you are sweet!! I'll write it down as soon as I come back. Enough of being lazy!

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  4. Glad that your friend and the babies are doing good.

    And travel, just opens up the world for you... Have a great vacation.

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    1. I didn't know I liked to travel so much before I started doing so. Thanks!

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  5. Wishes to your friend and the babies :) Thank god they are all doing okay.

    Wow, you are so outdoorsy. I am not a travel person but love to read about places. Maybe I should just chuck it and visit some places..

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    1. You must!! No one can Not like seeing new places and having new adventures. I am sure you will love it.

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  6. Well, some people can have kids and travel too :D We are going Swiss by the end of this month! Enjoy your trip Nisha.. and post pics...Oktoberfest is an amazing choice...you guys have an amazing bucket list!

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    1. Haha.. I know! I just like to believe it's a very tough job - travelling with kids, that is. Please don't take this away from me!!
      And happy Eid break to you too! If you come back to read this comment.. do go to Aare Gorge. It is a lessor known attraction but so awesome.

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Your sweetness makes my day. Gentle criticism will be taken in the right spirit too :)