There are times in my fitness journey that I have to look
outside for motivation. For this I follow several people on Instagram and read
about them. It inspires me every day and it makes my problems feel minuscule
in the grand scheme of things.
So I have this tiny crush on a woman (let’s call her Zee) whom
I follow on Instagram. Nothing attracts me more than a person graciously
exercising every day and motivating people through example. This lady is
pretty, she is 47, and has abs that can give Katrina Kaif’s Kaala chashma look a
run for its money. Just the type of abs I like in a woman! I am straight, just
FYI!
A couple of days back Zee wrote her story. It started 6
years back when she found out her husband was cheating on her for a long time.
She filed for divorce, fought for her rights and the custody of her kids, and
at the same time had to deal with rumours which said that it was her who had an extra
marital affair.
If you see the kind of career and body she has made in the
last six years, you will be super impressed. Whether it was revenge or necessity,
we will never know. But the lady is an inspiration.
The other woman, lets call her Es, is 43. Yes, yes, when you
are reaching your forties, you tend to look for people in forties for inspiration! I
also think that when you are nearing forties you tend to do more of inspiring
stuff – midlife crisis or whatever! Anyway, Es looks like she has got it all together.
She works 24/7 as a diet consultant, goes to the gym where she makes videos for
her followers, walks a minimum of 10,000 steps and takes care of a household. In
the last 4 years she has lost 45 kgs and is now on her way to make killer abs.
Es has battled depression, miscarriages, and a traumatic
experience where her best friend morphed her photos and circulated on social
media because of some misunderstanding! Even during the toughest phase she
managed to talk to and inspire her clients in their journey of weight loss. Here
I don’t even feel like talking to my friends if I have period cramps!
So what I am trying to say is this – the fact that everyone
is fighting a battle is true. But during this time if we manage to take care of
our body, we can emerge out of every problem triumphantly. When you see your
before after pictures, when you feel those happy hormones in your body after a
gym session, when you look at yourself in the mirror and see how far you have
come – your problems take a back seat.
Like I told a friend a few days back – food is the only
thing we have control over. Start your fitness journey and see yourself
transform into something extraordinary.
Meanwhile, I am trying. I am slow, but I am progressing. It will
be years before I can show you my before after pictures, but it will happen. And
trust me when I say, this journey is absolutely wonderful!
