I've grown up with my friends. I mean cousins were there, but cities apart. And so, friends were the extended family. The bond I share with them can only be understood by people who remain life long best friends with their school friends.
When you see these friends get married you feel insecure about the future of your relationship with them. You feel disheartened that you wont be the first one to know all the secrets! And if her spouse is better, which is always the case initially, you feel a wee bit jealous too!
But all this is only till the d-day. The bond is so strong that you feel nothing but emotional. It's like someone your own is stepping into a whole new world. All you want is the most beautiful life for your friend at that moment.
Thats exactly how I feel right now. I've known P for 14 years now. We've shared everytging in life. Distance made no difference to our relationship. Love just grew stronger and stronger. And now when she's making a new best friend, I only wish her life is better than the best..
And N, I can't belive he's getting married also! He was the best driver I had and now we won't be able to dominate him! He has been the sweetest friend but somehow losing him to another girl only makes me happy.
It's rare to feel unconditional love for someone. It's rare to wish a better life for others. I like weddings because they bring out these feelings in me, especially when its my best friend's wedding. Do you feel the same too?
