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Saturday, August 4, 2007

Friends Forever

Friendship day...reminds me of unnecessary expenditure on bands that we never wore for more than a day and Joey & Chandler's ultimate women repel'lor' - a gold band! And man, until a few years back...it use to be like an occasion...parties, cakes, cards...cute kiddie fun! Although most of my friends are out, its one of those few days, that I really like to celebrate. When it comes to friends, any amount of celebration is less I guess.

I've fought with my friends..physically...i know all guys would love to see girls just tearing each other apart.Unfortunately, we do it indoors! I've hated my friends..yeah when someone has a better bf...you feel happy, alright...but somewhere its all about ...oh i wish i had someone like him! I've been jealous like crazy...good marks, good clothes, better city, freedom...whatever...if you say you've never been jealous of a friend coz thats not true friendship..I declare you a liar!

And I've laughed with my friends. Over jokes no one would ever understand. Over stories and future plans no one would ever care to even listen. Over past, over other friends, over movies, and yeah FRIENDS the series! I've cried for lost love, for trouble with closed ones, for just any reason a girl would need to cry...like you need one!!

So what will i do tomorrow? Call up all my friends and say in an embarrassing tone 'happy friendship's day'! For me, its like saying, that I love them. Saying these 3 words to anyone other than a boyfriend(oh, i detest that word!) is hard for me. Why? Maybe because I express little. Thats sad actually. I wish I could say everything that I felt for everyone important in my life. Thats why i like internet...somehow it has made me open up. Its easier to say what you feel when you write it. So here it goes, to all my friends...

To saKshi...20 years and still rock solid..an absolute selfless friend..thats what u've taught me. And now that you are married, I wish you shared more!!!!!!!

To shAkti...I learnt sharing from you. From tiffin, secrets to crushes...So the little bit that I share(Oh, I'm very possessive about my stuff!) is to this cutie!

To prAchi...tears, laughter, anger, hatred, jealousy, love...we've been through it all. I really cant imagine what I would have done without you . NOR CAN YOU IMAGINE what you would have done without me...yeah i know!!

To yoSha...To stick for your friends, that's what you taught me. And how to be absolutely possessive for love ;)

To rucHika...your aims inspire me to use my talent. And sometimes it annoys me how you're always in your own sweet world...perhaps it comes with the talent thing! It's all that make u so adorable in the end.

To suMit...words fall short when I have to say something for you. Can't imagine how life would be if you weren't there. Yeah, I know, you say the same :)..and yeah its different than prachi's!

To nOOrien...I never imagined I could be best friends with you! Absolutely different from how 'my friend' would be...but while i got to know you...things changed. You've been the only one(apart from one more!) whose been able to let me be me...and I love you for that.

To nikHil...i absolutely hate you! How can you love all of us so much and how can you be there for everyone all the time...I'm still learning that from you...I know I would never succeed for you are absolutely the best friend anyone can ever have

To priYanka...one of my newest best friend yet it feels we've been together since ages...i cant learn to be emotionally strong from you...but i've learned how to watch from a distance...and come running if someone needs you. I love the fun times i've shared with u...and yeah...we'll plan everything together, right? And i think this is an appropriate time for me to ask u for a testimonial!haha

So these are my friends forever, love for a lifetime and rescuers in trouble! I will love them - make them like me anyway, hate them for useless reasons - wont tolerate any hatred, make them angry- get very angry, make them jealous - be jealous, will laugh - and crack them up with my fatal humor, cry with them...but never make them sad 'cause they mean the world to me...

Happppppppyyyyyyyyyyyy friendshipppp dayyyyyyyyy!!!!!!!!!

21 comments:

  1. This is to prove that I have read this blog. Thank u.

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  2. And by the way, happy friendship day to you too! :) Nice blog you have written, rest I'll say later.

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  3. just to say.. i love you.. infact we love you!!!!!!!!!
    happy friendships day!!!!!
    A decade of friendship:)

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  4. Anonymous8/05/2007

    Great post. True friendship doesnt require a friendship day to toast and celebrate. Every single day of true and real friendship is worth cherishing and celebrating.....

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  5. @sumit...ufff!!!

    @shakti..decade..i just counted..11 years!hope u enjoying :)

    @tugga..welcome to this space. n thanks. i agree we dont need a day..but then these days remind us of a lot of things that we forget in day to day life :)

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  6. Count yourself lucky....to have such a lot of good friends :-)

    Where wd we be without them!

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  7. nice post nisha!
    that was a really nice of u to write bout yer frenz here! :)
    Happy Friendship Day to u btw! :)

    peace & love
    Jeevy

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  8. I really don't think we need a day. Though it is a nice and welcome excuse to catch up on our friends or tell them how much we miss them; because we do take them for granted.

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  9. Hi Nisha
    Thanx alot yaarr. Believe me nxt weekend u ll be getting ur gift n very soon testimonial too......lol

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  10. awwwww damn sweet it ws!! thanks...amidst all the "not so happening friendship day anymore" crap..u made me feel tht old days r bck..just tht instd of cards its blog this time! love u...cheers for our frndship!!!!

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  11. lol!!see that people..say good things abt ur friends and they give u gifts!! im looking fwd to it priyanka!!!

    @ everyman..yeah..life wud be really sad

    @rajeev...thanks :)

    @Aditya...exactly!

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  12. Anonymous8/06/2007

    awesomeeee... our frienship rocks.... we all might be apart... but its this bond that joins us....long live nisha and friends ;-)...u rock babes!

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  13. u dont need a poem...nor d'u need a card...
    u dont need a day...nor the need to be a bard...
    to say u love them...even when the times are not hard...

    count urself among the lucky ones the world to have more good friends than fingers on one hand....

    i can see u cherish and value them...so i guess u deserve them too...lol.. ;)

    lovely post....
    to a happier life..filled with dear friends...
    cheers girl... :)

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  14. Anonymous8/07/2007

    :) HAPPY FRIENDSHIP DAY..
    belated hi sahi ji..
    lakh lakh badhaiya..u r one lucky gal

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  15. @yosha...for the first time nisha n friends is sounding embarrassing to me!lol..for those who r wondering..its a 90 video of me n my friends spanning 1.5 years..n i've called it nisha n friends and yosha is so mad at it!!lol

    @sneha...so cute!btw, happy friendship day..u're my blogger friend :)

    @dream catcher..thanku rahega ji! happy friendship day to u too :)

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  16. Anonymous8/07/2007

    My first time here. Absolutely stunning template. Great work.

    happy friendship day. Are you feeling the joy of receiving "happy friendship day" from absolutely random strangers :)

    I am just curious. I am sure you had more friends that who you wished here. Do they read your blog? What would they think if you left them out?

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  17. Anonymous8/07/2007

    mujhe mere dost yaad aa gaye!!!well written,,m sure ur friends felt grt..it always feels good when someone appreciates you and we often dont express our feelings for our loved ones..

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  18. hey thats sweet...blogger friend...new genre!! :) :)
    cool!!
    Belate happy friendships day 2 u 2!!

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  19. Hi Dear,
    Lovely post..Totally dedicated to frens..
    Happy belated frenship day dear.

    May god bless you all and your frenship keeps growing stronger..

    Take care

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  20. @ twisted dna.. i thought about that. But i'm sure people understand...cant comment much on this! Thanks for visiting :)

    @sneha.. :)

    @arti..bua day coming up for u soon..hopefully!!

    @shruti...hey same to u..n thanks a ton for the wishes!keep visiting :)

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  21. awesome post.. simply awesome

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